A SMALL, RESEARCHED LIBRARY

Useful in the difficult minute.

Not a feed of generic breakup advice. Each guide answers one real decision, shows its limits and gives you something concrete to do next.

01No get-your-ex-back games

02No universal healing timeline

03Sources and limitations shown

04Tools before product pitches

01Practical guide7 min readBefore you text your ex, give the decision 60 seconds.About to text your ex? Check whether contact is essential, use a one-minute decision framework, and see how No Contact can help on iPhone.02Private tool5 min readSee your no-contact day—without turning it into a score.Enter your start date to see your no-contact day and next personal milestone. This private calculator runs only in your browser.03Practical guide7 min readYou broke no contact. Do not let one message write the next five.One message does not erase your progress. Use this shame-free 15-minute reset, stop the follow-up spiral and choose your next boundary.04Practical guide8 min readYour ex texted. The notification is not a deadline.Your ex texted during no contact. Sort safety and logistics from a vague check-in, then choose no reply, a boundary reply or a brief response.05Practical guide7 min readMake checking your ex’s social media less automatic.A practical three-layer plan to stop checking an ex’s Instagram, TikTok or online status: remove the route, add friction and choose a replacement.06Practical guide8 min readChoose a breakup journal prompt that moves the thought somewhere.Choose the feeling you have today and get a focused breakup journal prompt for urges, anger, nostalgia, boundaries or rebuilding.07Practical guide7 min readThe breakup feels louder at night. Make the next ten minutes smaller.If breakup thoughts feel louder at night, use this quiet 10-minute plan before texting, checking social media or trying to solve everything.08Practical guide8 min readThe no contact rule, without the strategy games.What the no contact rule means, what counts as contact, and how to choose a full, social-only or essential-contact boundary without games.09Product feature4 min readPut a timed door between the urge and the app.Airlock uses Apple Screen Time permission to temporarily shield the apps and websites you choose for 15, 30 or 60 minutes—without reading your messages.